I believe the boxes represent some buffers/latches, like the 74LS244 and the upper being bidirectional like the 74LS245.
Yes, I thought the triangles made it obvious.
As your drawing shows that you'll be using SRAM as a graphic display, perhaps using a single 128KB SRAM might be useful, as you could have multiple "screen pages" by driving the upper address lines separately, just a thought.
Yes, I just shows 32K there for the display memory addressed by the 6845 and 6502, omitting the other address lines.
The main thrust is not wanting to the hassle addressing and selecting DRAM, the object is to have a 6502/6845 system to play with, not to be messing about designing and constructing messy memory systems.
It's like back in the '80s it was so frustrating that so much of my electronics construction projects seemed to end up 90% building a power supply. I had less than zero enthusiasm for building power supplies, I wanted to build the thing I wanted to build, not the damn power supply. Decades later I realised how much easier things would have been if wallwarts had existed.